Miles run yesterday: 3 (icky, rainy, didn’t-wanna-be-out-in-it run)
Book club meeting I attended last night: 1 (We discussed 2030.)
Words I have written in my novel today: 0
Sometimes you have to hear things over and over and over for the words to sink in.
Sometimes when you hear the words over and over and over, you say words without thinking about them.
Sometimes this is a problem.
When I went on the field trip to Old Salem with my daughter’s fourth grade class recently, I embarrassed her beyond imagination. (A very, very easy thing to do.)
Every single restored home had large signs throughout the building; signs that the girls in my group were able to overlook with daunting regularity.
“Second Floor for Staff Only” placed on a stair riser became: “Oooh! Let’s go upstairs!” And “Private Residence: Do Not Knock” became “Hey! Let’s go in this house! Let me knock!”
I was beginning to wonder whether I was chaperoning juvenile delinquents or illiterates.
Finally, as five girls started to lounge against a stair rail that said, “Do Not Touch,” I yelled out:
“Reading is Sexy!”
My daughter wanted to crawl under an 1800s-era rock.
A few years ago, my husband had seen a bumper sticker–Reading is Sexy–and every time our kids now disregard the printed word, one of us laughs and says, “Reading is Sexy.”
Sexy is apparently a bad word among the fourth grade set.
Blurting out inappropriate words made me realize that all of the things we repeat in our daily lives sink in somewhere in the crevices of our gray matter.
Last weekend, when I was at the writing conference I attend each year, I walked into a “Slushfest” with two friends. Slushfest, for the uninitiated, is where two anonymous, laminated first pages of someone’s novel are thrown up on a screen, and agents riff on why the passage would be something they would consider reading further or not.
After four years at the conference, I was starting to get that apathetic, senioritis feeling. I was tired; I felt I had heard it all before.
An agent we had sat at dinner with the night before then said something that felt like he was talking directly to me: “We have all heard these things before. At times, you may think you don’t need to hear them anymore. But I think it takes many times and ways of hearing things for wisdom to set in.”
I perked up. If only a teacher had said those very same words to me years ago, maybe I would have sat up straighter in my seat; maybe I would be sitting in a swank office somewhere, contemplating string theory.
Or maybe not.
I’ll leave you with words of wisdom gleaned from these experiences:
1. Reading is Sexy.
2. We need to hear important information over and over for it to sink in.
3. Be careful what you tell yourself over and over. You may start to believe it.
What is a helpful mantra for you that has led to success? What have you needed to hear over and over that eventually worked its way into your psyche? Have you ever embarrassed your child beyond belief?